Published on March 06, 2015
Oh, how often we allow ourselves to get faked out into settling for less than we want. Less than we deserve. I spoke with a client who is going through a challenge. We all go through them. During the conversation about this challenge it was brought up that what had been defined as their goal would now likely have to change as a result of the situation. ...
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Published on March 05, 2015
A client told me of a fascinating story that left me thinking a great deal today about our connection to stuff. The story was about a man in the news who has backpacked around the world for the past 10 years. He spent most of his time travelling around third world countries. Amazing in itself and you are likely thinking that this is a great example ...
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Published on March 04, 2015
I finally got around to booking a haircut. While waiting my turn I thumbed through a magazine that was there in a stand. I am always amazed that every magazine in hair salons are for women only. For all the men like me who enter these hallowed vestiges of style, it makes us feel like secret agents on a mission of espionage, looking to spirit back ...
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Published on March 03, 2015
During seminars and coaching sessions I often ask clients if they allow their children to watch violent video games or movies. The resounding answer is "no, of course not". When pressed for their rationale, I normally hear back, "Because it will affect them in some way. It could affect their behavior". Sound reasoning and realistic logic. Amazing then considering this that we ...
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Published on March 02, 2015
My little girl will turn 6 in the spring. Amazing how time marches on. Last week and I was looking through pictures and mementos that have gathered along the way. Going through everything I cam across this perspective that was written 5 years ago and wanted to share it with you. Here it is.
We often reflect on the perceived challenges in ...
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Published on February 27, 2015
I sat down one evening to work on creating an edition of "Perspectives". It is a fascinating process everyday to just allow the day to happen and trust that an event of the day will inspire me enough to want to write about it and share it with you. I read a quote that caused a movie to play back in my mind from a very ...
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Published on February 26, 2015
An unfortunate aspect of society is that we are trained to believe that to fail is to, well fail. Not true. All you need do is look at every aspect of your life and you will see that failure is the very reason you have accomplished anything. Failure to grasp an object when we were very small led to incredible determination to persist ...
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Published on February 25, 2015
There are three elements to life that produce results. They are opportunity, plan and activity. Without these three, life has the tendency to stay where it is. Look at where we live. Opportunity surrounds us everyday in the marketplace, in our communities and families. The chance to create a plan once a goal is chosen is available to ...
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Published on February 24, 2015
The wildly fluctuating prices of energy and talk of problems relative to dependence have created great discussions over what should be done. Should the focus be on developing alternative fuels, should we, as Sarah Pailin put it, "Drill baby, drill", look at cutting back or prepare for the ultimate Armageddon when the flame will go out and we will simply sit staring ...
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Published on February 23, 2015
There are a great many reasons to do what we do everyday. To make money, to feed our children, to contribute to the economy and many more. Like Maslow's hierarchy of needs, right up near the top shelf is the musing of the question, "Did I make a difference?"
On top of all of the other ...
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